Wednesday, June 6


Have a woken to a cooler day, can't complain as I will be off cleaning at La Era in just over an hour, strange to be pschycing [how do you spell this?]myself up to go out and then this evening a good chin wag with Lau n Sa mmmmmm, every moment is a perfect moment yep this *mantram* is still haunting a good portion of my daily conscious thoughts and I think it is a great one and the benefits are more than obvious [to me anyway].
Got a cheery email from Eli who is now on her back to Tenerife and her Dad seems to be making good progress, well I am off to make up my morning juice potion give me some extra energy LOL



Promoting The Positive
Negative Pull

Sometimes we start out with the best intentions to think and speak only positive thoughts, but the people around us throw us off course. Not everyone fully understands the power our thoughts and words have, or even if they do, they may be stuck in old patterns of negativity. Much of our habitual communication takes the form of complaining and criticizing, and it can be hard to find a way into certain conversations without lapsing into those old habits. However, we always have the option not to participate in negativity or to find a way to influence the situation in a positive direction. In the right company, you may even be able to directly acknowledge the fact that things have taken a negative turn, thus freeing yourself and others from the negative pull.

Not everyone will respond to your cues, and there’s no need to become overly attached to the idea of changing other people, because people have to choose for themselves how they will be in the world. Many people choose negativity because it is familiar to them and feels safe. It is important to give people the space to find their own way, but you can always set an example, subtly representing the power of being positive. At times you may interject an affirmative statement into the conversation, and at others you may simply change the subject. You may also simply withdraw your energy and presence, which also makes a subtle statement. If you feel comfortable enough with somebody that is always negative, perhaps you can have an honest conversation with them; after all, awareness is the first step to change.

A powerful way to free yourself from the negative pull is to enlist allies who are similarly minded. You and a friend, coworker, or family member may agree to work together to continually shift the energy in a situation in a positive direction. The power of two people working to promote the positive is exponentially greater than one person working on their own. As you and your allies work together to lift the energy around you, you will be amazed to see how quickly the positive pull begins to draw people into its orbit, freeing one mind after another from negativity into light.

4 n a half hours later I get home having spent the whole time cleaning bathrooms 8 of the guggers, so tomorrow it is titillating the bedrooms, flick o a duster n mop o the floor that kinda thing, but another 4 hours as it ill only me, they have 10 dudes from the UK renting the place for a week and they want me to go up Tues n Thurs next week another 2 lots of 4 hours - very handy; it really isn't like going to work as the ambiance of the place allows me to drift as my hands do the jobs they are well used to. More shattered than I had realised LOL.
I had to get away slightly early as I was expecting some female to arrive from Coin about the furniture, she was supposed to come yesterday and having trundled down and interrupted Mick n Maurice with their friends, she didn't show, got a text this am saying this afternoon would be good, but again she hasn't shown, so maybe she will be back in touch who knows
I am off to sprawl on the sofa and watch a bit of Hamish MacBeth that D has managed to download with m cuppa fruit T mmmmmmm

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